I saw someone say... well I read someone's comment on one of the various social mediums I use that read "Ladies LEARN HOW TO COOK... The way to a man's heart is sometimes through his stomach."
First off, shout out to the guy who wrote that, for even bothering to say that it's 'sometimes' through his stomach, because for years, I have always heard people just say the way IS through his stomach... NOT sometime, NOT 'may be,' NOT 'could be,' just IS.
Basically: You will never get a man unless you cook for him.
I could care less about the saying, I just started pondering, what if that isn't your goal. That isn't your end game, to land a man. I think I'm in the minority, aside from my lesbian friends, of females who are not in search of a man. But this very saying will prevent it from happening for me anyway. I don't volunteer to cook for ANYONE, EVER, and I'm definitely not going to cook for you unless I like you. I don't cook for people to get them to like me. You don't like me, so what, I don't care. That just isn't something I do. If that keeps me single, well then that's the way it's supposed to be.